Seducing a woman online with the goal of having sex with her as soon as possible is realistic and achievable for most guys. Unfortunately, many approach the whole task of Internet seduction of women for sex the wrong way. Firstly, they make too many simple mistakes. And secondly, they are approaching the wrong types of women for sexual encounters.
Let’s first look at two of the biggest errors guys commit in their efforts to seduce women online for sex.
1. Being too sleazy
Sure, you are looking for a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality and prepared to engage in sexual relations with men without a long waiting period. However, even if you are sure you are targeting such a girl, being a sleaze bucket will put off even many promiscuous females. Be classy with some subtle innuendo first. If she then comes across with some X-rated language and chat with you, then of course you can turn up the heat as well.
2. Being too shy
In contrast to the above, if you dilly-dally too much in getting to the point, you will see a large number of your potential sex partners switch off and go looking elsewhere. Remember, many studies have shown that there are plenty of girls looking for nothing but casual sex online – just like there are lots of guys with this single aim – so being timid is doomed to disaster.
Now, let’s look at three great online tips for getting that woman into bed as soon as possible.
1. Check her online profile carefully
Many online dating sites – especially those with an adult or “naughty” orientation – will enable their members to check off a list of items when constructing their profiles. For guys, this can include intimate details like the size of your penis and even whether or not you are circumcised. For women, it will include information about their breast size, whether they have a shaved vagina, genital piercings, and much more. Also, they might check off some boxes about what sexual practices they are into. If a potential online date has indicated that she is into oral sex, anal sex and other things that tickle your fancy, then this is exactly the type of woman you need to be targeting. Also, very good results can be achieved by going for women who are only average looking.
2. Do some online flirting
Firstly, tell her up front you are a normal, healthy guy who wants to meet women for sex online. This will preserve your integrity later, and also quickly give you a list of potential candidates based on their responses to you. If you get some positive answers, step up the flirt factor. How do we flirt online without body language? Sure, human social interaction in the flesh can make flirting much more effective, but there are also ways to flirt online. Make use of the following to make online flirting easier:
links to funny or naughty websites
photos of you being or looking cheeky
3. Be prepared for preparatory chit-chat
Now, even when sex is the primary motivation for both you and the women you want to meet, she may be a little hesitant if there is nothing more to you than a guy with uncontrollable urges. Women, even the very naughty ones, are wired very differently to men. They will want to get to know you as a person, even if they say they don’t. It’s instinctive. Women are huge on communication, so be prepared to engage in some idle chit chat with them first, even if it is just for a few hours. These days, most younger women are obsessed with Facebook and other social media, so get ready to spend at least a little bit of time in conversation with her before seducing her all the way into bed.